Does this sound like you?
You are extremely loving and generous. You give SO MUCH to your loves, your family and friends, your job, and anything you are a part of.
You are highly intelligent. You often know exactly what you ‘should’ be doing with your life.
Yet you’re craving something more…
You are in the right place.
And you are more powerful than you know.
The single biggest challenge that you face is that the qualities you've cultivated to succeed in the world, such as: being highly competent, being a high achiever (or even an OVER-achiever!), and pleasing others- are the same qualities that are keeping you trapped in a cycle of stress, anxiety, loneliness, and discontent.
In the time I've spent doing this work, I've learned that some of these strengths and gifts you’ve cultivated to make it out in the world, can become the challenges that drive you out of touch with your pleasure, feminine power and the wisdom of your heart:
1. You are a constant, devoted giver.
You are so skilled at giving others the nurturing, support, and resources they need that you often fall into the ‘after-thought’ category in your own life, wondering WHO is going to give the nurturing, support, and resources that YOU need. Another way to look at this is that your receiving muscle is weak and underused, and your giving muscle is tense and strained.
2. You are a high achiever.
You have jumped through the hoops, and checked off the list ways to be successful, good, liked, and loved. You are so good at DOING that you often forget the art of BEING. You are overwhelmed by the pace of your life, but you feel lost without the busy-ness. You have tried to do what you thought you ‘should’ do, but you still don’t feel the way you hoped you would.
3. You are incredibly strong.
You somehow manage to plaster on a happy face and keep saying 'yes' to everyone no matter what is going on behind the scenes in your life. You really want to get into a joyful, harmonious, consistent groove. Even though you've dealt with anxiety, depression, and extreme fatigue at different times in your life, you know there is more to life than hiding your weariness.
4. You are full of deep passion & desire.
You are ready to fully activate your sexual & creative power but you aren’t sure where to start. Maybe you’ve heard a little about the benefits of orgasm, sexual activation, or the jade egg practice and you’re intrigued, but not sure of these things are the right fit for YOU. Or you think your sexuality doesn’t really matter, because you aren’t in a relationship right now. (spoiler: your sexuality ALWAYS matters and contributes to a rich, healthy life full of things you love!)
Maybe you are ready to be in a relationship with the great love of your life, but you haven’t yet magnetized him or her.
5. You don't need help.
Well, you don’t. People are often astounded by what you create or accomplish. You are a go-getter, and one of the highest-achieving people you know. And you definitely don’t need support. So you are missing out on having your very own personal support team.
6. You miss out on radical honesty.
You don't want to open up to just anyone. It gets old feeling misunderstood. It can be challenging to create relationships where people aren't afraid to hold back and give you what you need most- the honest truth. Most of the time even our closest friends tell us what they think we want to hear. Busy women like you often have few people willing to listen deeply and respond with the radical honesty you need most.
I am often the only person in my client’s world who refuses to stay on the surface or tell them what they want to hear. I go deep, to the core of your beautiful being. I see you in all your power and your glory. I won’t sugar coat it. I won’t let your fears hold you back. I won’t believe your ‘stories’. And I won’t buy into your bullshit. I’ll tell you how it is. I’ll say what no one else in your world is bold enough to say. And I’ll do that from an authentic, loving, and vulnerable place.